(It's still) Friday (somewhere) Links

• Diary of a Goldfish: If I were a rich man
• Dances With Fat: Avoid Holiday Weight Shame
• [trigger warning] Not a zero sum game: Why is it victim blaming to talk about rape and drinking?
• Anna Bawden and Denis Campbell at the Guardian: NHS accused over deaths of disabled patients
• Melissa McEwan at Shakesville: Photo of the Day
• Esther Choi at Racialicious: Private Danny Chen, and why I will never again reach out to OWS about something that matters to me
• Forty Shades of Grey: Female Privilege Checklist-agogo!
• Laura Woodhouse at The F-Word: Diane Abbott racism non-story